It seems every year, we go through this ritual of
"First Day of School!" And we all see the photos, and here the news
stories, and we are riveted by the scenes around elementary and high schools of
students feet being photographed or videoed for the TV news, and such, and
hearing the sobbing mom's and the doting dad's saying how proud they are of
their little one heading off to school!
Alright, lets drop back 40-50 years ago, and NO one
and I mean NO ONE cared about the first day of school, other than the Teachers,
and the parents that had to drop of their kids before they went to work,
because during the summer we still had schedules.
I don't know about you guys, but for myself and my
sibling, we were involved with Summer activities at the local elementary
school, or later at a YMCA day camp near Bachman lake in North Dallas.
Memories come rushing back to me, as I remember the
summer months of Camp Kiwanis, where we could go swimming, or canoeing, or even
Dinosaur Bone digging along the spillway (yes there was one found and brought
to the Dallas Museum of Natural History to be verified), we had camp councilors
that would bring their guitars and sing "Big Blue Frog" (if you don't know it look it up on You Tube
by Peter, Paul, and Mary-- their album 1700), that made the Dallas Morning
News, and my sister sitting right next to the longhaired councilor, who wasn't
a hippie because he actually wore socks! (Swear that was one of the kids
response when they were asked about his "hippie looks")
I remember being at that camp with a school mate of
mine who played baseball and had to be excused from certain activities so he
could play that night, or the time I was jumped on by four other campers to
beat me up, and some came to my aid!
Going across Denton Dr, to the Marines Recruiting
compound (Now a Dart Barn) where we could shoot .22 rifles and learn how to
take care of a weapon-- and also how to "DROP AND GIVE ME 20!!!!"...
(hey Vietnam was still going on, and military life was staring us in the face)
THEN after three months of that, it was time to go
back to school! No fanfare, no trumpets blaring our return, just our neighbors
walking the familiar walk to the elementary and seeing the flag raised, and our
morning pledge of allegiance, and the morning announcements!
Some of us couldn't wait for our lunch break, and
our social gathering in those days was meeting someone at the "Black
Top" after lunch and hang out!
Music was a big part of elementary life, either
singing in the choir or playing an instrument, for me it was the Violin, later
the Drums, and when I got to high school it was being the Half Time Announcer
for the band and drill team.
School-- first day-- last day-- it was the same, we
got up, got to school, got educated, and left with accomplishment.
TODAY! Social media-- Facebook, Twitter, Instagram,
Pintrest, you name it, SnapChat, people are on it! Sending their pictures of
their younin's on there, to make all of us see how they were dressed for this
first day of school, and how hard it is to let go for some of them starting
High School, or their Senior Year of high school!
I have a good and dear friend who will send her
youngest-- her baby off to College at the end of the month, and in doing so,
that is a huge emotion to do that. Three hours southeast of Dallas, in a town
where there's not much to do, other than go to College, and go to the Football
Games, the Basketball Games or other events, and pledge a Sorority, and maybe
get a job at the local sports bar, and basically watch the traffic lights flash
yellow at nine o'clock!
Yep thats life at Stephen F. Austin State
University! And in doing that, my friend will become an empty nester, and
hopefully she will be able to do things that she has not been able, since being
injured on the job a year ago!
But in any case.. FIRST DAY of school is done, and
over with, and my memories, are a bit skewed, in as much as I just remember
being kicked out of the house at 7:30 so I could walk fifteen minutes to the
school, walk through the doors, and see my homeroom teacher, and seeing old
friends!
Welcome BACK STUDENTS! it only 1 day out of 180 that
you will be in school, and lets not forget, the Winter Break (used to be called
Christmas Break at one time) Spring Break (used to be called Easter Break) and
then SUMMER VACATION (now known as 2 months and a few days of laying around the
house bugging the hell out of parents -- I'm bored-- there's nothing to do)..
GET A FRIGGIN JOB!
I laugh, because that was the EXACT words my parents
said to me when I told them that I was bored! And I did! made all the
difference in the world!
So lets get through this first week, there will be
pep assemblies, football games on Friday nights, and after the games the
gathering at the local hamburger joints (in our day it was KIP'S BIG BOY) today
its more like What-A-Burger or other fast food joints! Miss Kip's! Forest Lane
and Marsh! or the one on Northwest Highway at Hillcrest! There were others, but
those are the ones in my memory banks!
Hell for a real good time-- My parents would load us
up in the car and take us down to House of Gong on Northwest Hwy and Marsh Lane
(north of Love Field).
I digress! Its the FIRST DAY OF SCHOOL! And in just nine short months it will be the
LAST DAY OF SCHOOL! and then GRADUATION! (even from kindergarten to first grade
and from middle school to high school, then from High School to College- and
then from College to Bankruptcy- because of your student loans!) just sayin!
It's just a thought!